: : MirrorMirror part 3
: : mirrormirror part 3 ~
aka Attachment Wounding Repair
(1 & 2 found on insta)
(spoken with masculine/feminine man/woman speak but these dynamics exist in many forms and expressions. Stillpoint wave. Alpha omega. Sun moon. Yin yang. Island wave. Anima animus.
Within one. Between two--> Do you)
Beautiful Woman, if you are STILL waiting for him to stake his claim in you. If you are longing to be chosen as the one flower in a field full, or if you are yearning for the hold of his gaze and deepening presence. Then put the phone down and do this…
First - 1. what you need to know is that romantic relationship is in a radical renaissance (applicable to relationship to self). The structures that used to keep the farm going or children cared for, or even just convenient and fun camaraderie, now have an option of being a space of the deepest form of growth, shadow reveal, and spiritual awakening, should one choose (2 choose). 2. Another thing to keep in mind is that growth has a pulse of opening and contracting so if you experience set backs, know that this is normal and only in service to more life. One has only to watch the fastmotion video of the opening of a flower, a jelly fish make its way through water, or feel the deep invitation of winter.
This is not a story about being too much. This is not a story about being unlovable. This is about finding the masculine match for the feminine love field that you bring. And the mismatch that you feel is an ancient story and so here and now, hold and rewrite. Hold and remember. But hold it well. As in watch. Be specific. The fairytale question of the 'fairest of them all' came from a place of lack and therefore feels compelled to compete. The evil queen (& all evil) comes from a place that isn't whole- that has lost a part of itself. The feminine nature is about longing, reaching, wanting more.
What we get to find, in an embodied way, is that THAT is an exact reflection of the nature of life. Always growing expanding into new territory. The masculine, the consciousness- the space that it inhabits and the container that allows life (and love) to flow. (On one dimension- there are many). There is a story you hold in your body where these two elements were out of balance, and so now, you get to feel the yearn- the heart, the belly, the loins, wherever you feel what you feel. Feel in deeply and with curiosity. Grieve like it’s your job. Dance, run, kickbox with your anger. Find competent friends (the relational piece is important) that can be with grief (discernment- few know how to do this well and retraumatization is possible- forgive them if they don’t know how and move on) or therapists or coaches.
Take time here and then observe/ sit amongst/ imagine, nature and the way the oak reaches, the unfurl of the fern, the fullness of any one expression of flora or fauna. Be with that yearning, that ache to grow past constriction, that hunger of a bud to push past the cement and wiggle its way forward to wave in the wind, the persistence of a species to trot on despite any number of impediments. Feel how divine, how beautiful, how sacred.. ALSO feel how miraculous the discomfort- this very feeling that put you in better relationship with yourself. Without rush or push- let this process take months, years, lifetimes. The containment of your skin + the arms of consciousness ARE the ‘masculine’ you seek. Embody it find it feel it here. Know the reflection and the echo that you house as nothing short of wild natural wonder (wave, moon, feminine) and hold it with unwavering integrity through observation (stillpoint, sun, masculine).
Whatever happens from here, with ‘him’ or without is not up to you. But to feel the holding, and the match that you seek, allows a fullness in another (or him in a different way) to enter and from there you can play with energetic agility and polarize or stay in resonance or do any number of things with this wild wondrous life.
And so, beloved, stand tall without need to diminish OR display. You are and hold well, a beauty beyond measure.
THIS is the beginning. The REAL origin story.
Meditation meets nature meets nurture meets your nature meets neurogenesis meets attachment pattern resolve meets origin story rewrite.
There is more to see/ say here.
~ For coaching that is body based, nature informed, trauma aware, consciousness curious, and beauty bound, I’d be honored to support.
Packages of 3, 6, or 9 unless you’ve completed a retreat or program in which case a la carte and/ or seasonal attunement also available.
And/ Or will happily just drop words of inspiration along your path.
#pastshameandintobloom
#attachementwoundingrepair
ALSO~
Zoom Classes:
I will be hosting retreat in NC the first week of August and then visiting family so no restorative on Thurs Aug 1 and no Artful Flow or Restorative for the following week.
Beginning again August 12.
So join us this Monday if you’re able and/ or….
Home Practice:
While away i’ll be offering 30% off on all classes in the virtual library. We haven’t done this for a while so please make use of these as you will up until Aug 10. As a reminder, these contain Artful Flow classes (creative vinyasa), Restorative/ Yin classes, and Guided Meditations. And you will have access to the class you purchase to repeat and deepen into for 3 months.
ENTER code: homepracticeluv.
There is a part of me (sometimes- often times- large and in charge) with a bit of a rebellious nature and a sprinkling of irreverence which has me always appreciate spiritual and emotional wisdom from those that aren’t branded as such. Especially when it’s a little bit salty ;)
“The more one does and sees and feels, the more one is able to do, and the more genuine may be one’s appreciation of fundamental things like home, and love, and understanding companionship.”
“Better to do a good deed near at home than go far away to burn incense.”
Today is the bday of Amelia Earhart born in Atchison Kansas 1897.
Keep feelin and doin and seein, sweet souls.
All the love and then some,
Julia
